Every once in a while, an opportunity comes along that tests my willingness to step out of my comfort zone. A few years ago, I ventured on my first solo trip to meet my bestie on the Outer Banks in North Carolina. I calmed threatening nerves and negative thoughts with affirmations and careful preparation. I not only survived, but my confidence also soared.

The following year, I shocked my daughter by suggesting we visit Rome and then cruise to Greece, Turkey, and Sicily. The decision required faith, courage, and nearly a year of planning. My sister-in-law decided to join us and made arrangements with an amazing travel agent. Wow! What a trip! The memorable experience made me even more eager to say yes to another adventure.

Recently, I was invited to expand my horizons in a new way. My hand trembled over the keyboard as I read an email inviting me to do an in-house interview with Authors Edge, a radio show dedicated to highlighting authors and the stories behind their work. Apparently, my self-confidence hadn’t quite calmed my anxiety about spontaneously speaking about my writing.

My first inclination was to politely decline the offer. The thought of being interviewed in-person freaked me out. As a writer, I can draft a response, rely on my thesaurus for descriptions, use my critique groups to fine-tune a chapter, and feel secure before I hit send.

I sat looking at my laptop, trying to create a thoughtful rejection to the generous offer. The only truthful excuse was fear. How lame was that? What happened to all my late-in-life gun-ho “I can do this” self-talk? What was I afraid of? Doing something I’ve never done? Making a fool of myself? Possibly selling more books? Fear of making a fool of myself? Nailed it.

I sucked in a deep breath and started typing. I’d be honored to do the interview. The host had offered a few dates from which to choose. I selected the first available recording session because I work best with deadlines—especially if it’s close.

For the next few weeks, I convinced myself I could do this. I created a list of anticipated questions and did what writers do best. I wrote out what I hoped would come out of my mouth if asked. Instead of envisioning myself as failing, I pictured myself answering with confidence, at least a fake-it-till-you-make-it effort.

I’m proud to share the resulting interview.

I’m curious. What is your biggest fear? What takes courage for you to step outside the lines? I’d love to hear from you!